From: Matt O'Connell

Let me educate you on the latest divorce trend: Men are taking total control of their divorce.

The old method of hiring a lawyers and letting a judge decide your fate is quickly fading to the new method of "everybody wins".

All Divorces, No Matter How Complex, Fit One Simple Rule:

"Your divorce will begin with a divorce filing and it will end when a judge signs your Judgment and Decree"

The only questions are:

1. What will the final decree say? Will the final decree be written on your terms or will it be forced upon you by a judge in court? Is it going to be fair?

2. How much will writing a final decree cost you? Are you and your wife going to settle quickly or duke it out in court for months at a cost of thousands?

3. How long will it take to write the final decree and get it in front of a judge? The longer the process takes, the more it'll cost you.

Whether you have a complex case, hire the most expensive lawyer in town, or represent yourself, you divorce will end only when the Judgment and Decree is written and signed by a Judge.

You Have Two Choices

1. You can hire a lawyer to argue in court and let a judge decide your fate. In court, there is a winner and a loser. Men are generally the losers. You get a bad deal forced upon you via court order.

2. You can negotiate your own settlement. You keep control of your own fate. You decide if the terms of your final decree acceptable. You don't get a bad deal forced upon you.

Don't Fight the System, Beat the System

Good mariners know not to try and change the direction of the wind, nor do they wait for the wind to be at their back; they simply adjust their sails to the prevailing winds to achieve forward progress.

Too often men fight the divorce system; this is akin to trying to change the direction of the winds. You can't win. It never works. You'll get much better results by making small adjustments and working within the system.

When Should You Hire a Lawyer?

Buying or selling a house is a legal transaction. The buyer and seller enter a legal agreement and file legally binding documents with the state.

The same is true for buying or selling a car. Filing taxes also requires you to sign and file a legal document with the Federal Government.

I've done all these things many times and have never once used a lawyer

When I buy and sell a house, I work with a real estate broker, not an attorney. When I file my taxes, I complete the form myself or hire a tax accountant; I've never used an attorney to file a tax return.

I'd only hire a lawyer if something goes wrong.

Why is it, when faced with a divorce, most people's knee-jerk reaction is to hire a lawyer at the very beginning? There are several reasons:

1. Hollywood and the divorce industry have conditioned us to believe that we need to hire a lawyer to do everything

2. Many people are intimidated by the divorce process and have no idea where to turn.

3. Many people believe that hiring a lawyer will guarantee a better result. It doesn't

None of these are true. Hiring an attorney should never be your first step. You should hire a lawyer only when needed.

When you hire a lawyer and go to court, there is a winner and a loser; men are often the losers in court. By avoiding court and minimizing lawyers, you're able to achieve a "win-win" agreement. I'll help you achieve this.

The Traditional Way = Failure

When facing a divorce, hiring a lawyer and suing your wife in court should be your last option, not a starting point. Your first phone call should never be to a lawyer.

Not only are you likely to get a bad result, but you'll pay thousands in the process. Why do so many couples evoke this strategy? Because it's all they know.

It's been that way since the 1970's. Hiring a lawyer should be a last resort, never the first step.

Understanding how the system really works and developing a winning strategy is the only way to achieve the best results.

The World Has Changed

Inexpensive phone calls, e-mail, and the internet have changed the world. On Amazon.com, you can shop stores all over the world in minutes without ever leaving your desk. You're no longer limited to the local department store.

Music and movies can be downloaded in minutes. DVD's can be rented from Redbox kiosks for $1. This same model of efficiency is being now being applied to professional services.

No longer are your options for divorce advice limited to "the $200/hr lawyer in town".

People Now Demand Faster, Cheaper Service and Better Results

Gone are the days when people pay 15 cents per minute to talk on the phone or buy an $11 CD for one song. Few people pay $4.50 to rent a DVD at the video store when you can join Netflix for $7.99 per month. People have come to expect faster, cheaper service and better results. Divorce is no different.

Why pay $200/hr to an attorney to drag your case out in court for weeks or months when you can pay a fraction of that and get a better result in much less time?

Don't Follow a 1970's Divorce Model

If everything else has become cheaper, faster, and better; why has the divorce industry not changed since the 1970's? In the 1970's, you hired a divorce attorney and let them run the show.

Cases were argued in court and a judge would render a decision picking a winner and a loser. Up until now, hiring an expensive local lawyer was the only option. Today; it's a different world.

Why would anybody use a method that hasn't changed in 40 years? Don't use a divorce method from the 1970's.

"Let Me Be Your Personal Divorce Advocate and Coach"

As the #1 divorce expert on the Internet since 2005, I'll work with you over the phone and create a specific strategy to meet your unique situation.

I'll prepare needed documents and zip them to your e-mail in box in minutes. My goal is to get you the best deal possible as quickly as possible.

I want to help you settle your case in days, not months. I'll do all this for a fraction of the cost of an attorney with no contracts, no obligations, and no large upfront retainer fee.

• I'll listen to your specific details and create a strategic plan that's right for you. Then, I'll work with you to execute that plan.

• I'll explain how the system works, answer all your questions, and provide you with an honest assessment of what you can expect.

• I'll make sure you cover all the bases

• If you want, I'll negotiate with your soon to be ex-wife (if possible).

• I'll create the financial documents you'll need for negotiations or court

• If your soon to be ex-wife won't agree to a settlement, I'll help you prepare for court whether you represent yourself or hire an attorney

• If you need an attorney, I'll let you know

• If you need to an attorney, I'll help you find the best one to hire

• If you hire an attorney, I can lower your legal costs by helping you manage your attorney more effectively. I'll provide a 2nd opinion throughout your case. Check in with me whenever you have doubts about your case.

• I can help you calculate your child support to the penny

• I can suggest strategies to help you lower or eliminate potential alimony

• How will your divorce effect your tax situation? I'll make sure you're covered.

• If child custody is an issue, I can quickly evaluate your case and tell you exactly how to proceed.

Why You Should Hire Me

I've had the #1 selling divorce e-book on the internet since 2005. Over the years, I've coached thousands of men through their divorce.

My e-book has been so successful, that I started helping men to implement my divorce strategies personally. I provide great divorce advice for a small fraction of what a typical divorce lawyer charges. My strategies are proven!

I work with you on a personal one-on-one basis guiding you every step of the way. I know what works and what doesn't work

Work with Me and You'll Receive

• A Better Divorce Result

• End Your Divorce Quickly

• Save Thousands

• Have Much Less Stress

• I Work on Your Schedule, Not Mine

I Work Around Your Schedule

The divorce industry works from 9-5 Monday through Friday. This can be a problem if you also work these same hours.

Wouldn't it be nice to speak with a divorce expert on your terms not theirs? I'm available by appointment 7AM-11PM (eastern) everyday. I'm flexible to accommodate your schedule.

"You get up to four hours of personal one-on-one time with me and my best selling e-Book for only $199.95"

So How Does This Work?

It's very simple. You decide that you want great divorce advice at a fraction of the price and sign up for $199.95. For that, you receive up to four hours of one-on-one time with me. You can use these minutes anyway you wish; five minutes here and there, or an hour at a time.

No large retainer fees, no contracts, you're not locked into anything. You're free to quit any time and I'll refund all remaining minutes.

What Are the Steps?

1. Go to the bottom of this page and order my "Divorce Consulting Package and my best selling divorce e-book". This will give you up to four hours of one-on-one time with me for only $199.95

2. Immediately after you place your order, you'll receive a confirmation e-mail with my direct e-mail and contact information. You'll also receive a copy of my best selling divorce e-book you can start reading immediately

3. Send me an e-mail with your preferred date, time, and a phone number you'd like me to call. Please include your time zone.

4. I'll respond (via e-mail) and confirm or work with you to find another time if your requested time isn't available.

5. I'll then call the number you provided at the designated date and time.

It couldn't be any easier. If we don't resolve your divorce issues in four hours, you can add more time if needed. You're not limited to 4 hours.

My Goal

My Goal is to help you get the best divorce result possible for a fraction of the cost as quickly as possible. I'll do everything I can to help you settle your case in a week!

I do that by throwing the 1970's traditional divorce model out the window. I use modern, proven strategies that get results.

Cut Your Cost in Half

Many couples agree to work with me together to cut costs. I'll work with both you and you and your wife to help you both reach a "win-win" deal as quickly as possible. In these cases, the cost is shared with each paying person only $99.98.

Because your wife is saving as much money as you, she'll likely be willing to split the cost with you.

You'll NEVER get advice this good for so little." Deals like this don't come along often.

Risk Free

If you decide to quit or we resolve your case in less than an hour, you'll be issued a refund for all the remaining unused time. Working with me is not only is cost effective, it's also risk free. You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain.

"Knowing what you do now, after reading this website, why would you EVER follow the old traditional 1970's divorce model that has a proven 40 year track record of failure and heartache?"

"Call Me First, and Let Me Show You a Better Way"

Thank you, now let's get going!

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